1. The Vow Exchange Ritual -

Other than the legal vows you may chose to exchange personal vows to each other. I have a Guide to help you with this. Here.

2. The Ring Exchange -

We all know this one. Can always accompany with a commitment to each other.

3. The Candle-Lighting -

Often included in Christian, Catholic and other religious wedding ceremonies. The ritual involves the you both lighting a common candle from two individual candles, symbolising your union.

4. The Hand- Fasting Ritual or "Tying the Knot" -

A 2000 year old ancient Celtic Tradition. Standing face to face, as I or a family member binds your hands with a special cord or ribbon. It Symbolises your commitment to each other.

5. Parents blessing -

You may choose for your parents blessing as an alternative. Your parents are asked to stand during the ceremony and give permission for their marriage.

6. The Sand Ceremony -

Similar to the candle lighting ceremony mentioned above, the sand-pouring ritual finds you both pouring sand from two individual containers into a single vase. The Sand ceremony can also involve other family members symbolising bringing together two families. This is a great option if you have children!

7. The Family Vows -

State a Family Promise or family Vow. Can also exchange a piece of jewellery, such as a family ring. etc

8. Acknowledge of Country -

Usually an ‘Acknowledgement of Country’ is sufficient, however if indigenous people are present, it may be appropriate to include a ‘Welcome to Country’.

9. The Ring-Warming Ritual -

Before the rings are exchanged, they're passed around to your guests to be "warmed up". Your guests will hold the rings in their hands for a moment and sets an intention or wish for the you and your marriage.

10. The Shot Ritual -

MY FAVOURITE. Not for everyone but if you’re up for it. Each guest will take a shot of your favourite spirit. Can of course be a bottle of beer or a glass of bubbles. Your guest will cheers and send you well-wishes.